Win Win

Based on other things I have been learning I felt it was necessary to address a situation that has been bothering me.  I asked my son for a private council to address the issue but I knew it could be a problem.  I had not yet studied the idea of 'win-win' in depth but I decided against a confrontation with blame at the fore.  Instead I was willing to listen and solicit information.  As a result, not only have we reached an agreement about my initial concern, but I have obtained his help in helping me attain another goal.  I am grateful for conciliation.